Woman Have Fantasies
Too
by Nancy Fagan, M.S.,
ExpertDatingAdvice.com
Sexual fantasies are an intriguing
subject...and not only men have them. The
truth is, women have them too, but they are limited to three general
types.
Women can be just as sexual as a man if he learns what fantasy buttons
to push.
In order to rouse a woman's fantasies, it takes a little work.
First of all,
when you set out to stimulate your partner, you need to narrow your
focus down to the three specific types of fantasies: 1. Women with
women, 2. Women in Control, and 3. Sexually insatiable.
Too often, when using fantasies, men include the things that turn
themselves on rather than what arouses a woman. Unfortunately,
this is the quickest way to turn a woman off. Women have specific
requirements in their fantasies,
primarily, a slow building pace before and after the sex act. As a
matter of
fact, the non-sexual touching is equally arousing to a woman.
When using
fantasies with your partner, pay close attention to the core elements in
each of the types listed below and include those details during fantasy
talk.
Fantasy one:
Women with Women. This fantasy is alluring to women because its
primary activities consists of two aspects of sex that women crave: oral
satisfaction and tenderness. The key to this fantasy is slow
seduction. It begins with caressing and holding, builds to
passionate, mutual orgasms, and finishes the way it began-tenderly.
Fantasy Two: Women in Control.
The central theme in this fantasy is a woman who has the power to maker
her partner come. This is the woman who plays the controlling
seductress whether it's through the role of dominatrix,
exhibitionist, or any number of controlling women roles that turn a man
on. Herarousal comes from watching a man lose his control to her.
Fantasy Three: Sexually Insatiable.
Unlike the other two types of fantasies, this one is more "manly"
because the focus is on the sex act. Common themes in these
fantasies are: engaging in forbidden love, oral sex, multiple orgasms,
orgies, public sex, and anything involving sexually adventurous
actions.
The easiest way to begin is to start out
slowly. You might, for instance, bring
up the topic of sexual fantasies. All you need to say is, "Which of the
following three would turn you on more? At that time, mention the
fantasies above. The mere act of talking about it will arouse her.
So, if you want to turn your partner on through sexual fantasies, all
you have to do is start talking about the subject. It may be
a slow process, but it's
guaranteed to create an insatiable woman!
This article contributed by Nancy Fagan of
Dr. Romance
www.ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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